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I Feel... Depressed
Do you feel as if a heavy cloud lingers over you, making even the brightest days feel dull and empty?
You're not alone. Below you'll find resources and guides to gently support you in understanding and managing depression.
If you're struggling, a helping hand is just a phone call away. You don't need to go through this alone.
What is Depression?
Depression is characterised by persistent feelings of sadness or numbness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed.
It affects how you think, feel, and function in daily life, often leading to physical symptoms such as fatigue, changes in sleep, and/or appetite.
Depression is not simply a "low mood" or feeling "down"; it is a serious response that can impact overall wellbeing and usually requires treatment.
Just as you wouldn’t ignore a physical injury, you shouldn’t overlook the care your mind needs to stay healthy.
Who Can Feel Depressed?
Depression can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, ethnicity, or socio-economic background. It can result from a combination of things, including genetics, brain chemistry, life events, and environmental stressors. Just a few examples include:
- Children and Teenagers: Even young people can experience depression, often linked to school pressure, bullying, or issues at home.
- Adults: Work stress, relationship problems, financial difficulties, or health issues can trigger depression.
- Older Adults: Loneliness, loss of loved ones, or chronic health conditions can contribute to depression in later life.
- Caregivers: People who care for family members with serious health conditions or disabilities often experience depression due to the emotional and physical demands of caregiving.
Did You know?
You are not alone. According to mental health charity, Mind:-
Approximately 1 in 6 adults in the UK experience depression, anxiety, or both in any given week.
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Around 1 in 8 children and young people aged 5-19 suffer from mental health disorders, with depression being one of the most common.
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Depression is a leading cause of workplace absence, costing UK employers billions annually.
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Men are less likely to seek help, with depression often manifesting as anger, irritability, or substance abuse. Suicide rates in men remain disproportionately high.
When to Seek Professional Help
It’s important to seek professional help if:
- Symptoms persist for two weeks or more and interfere with daily life.
- You experience suicidal thoughts or self-harming behaviours.
- Emotional distress impacts your ability to work, maintain relationships, or care for yourself or others.
- Coping strategies, such as talking to friends, exercise, or relaxation techniques, are not helping.
Self-Care for Depression:
By incorporating small, intentional self-care practices into your daily routine, you can regain a sense of control and, little by little, improve your mood:
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Go for a 10-Minute Walk
Walking releases endorphins. The fresh air and sunlight exposure can help you to reset and feel a bit better.
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Message a Friend
Texting or calling someone can help you to feel a little less alone and also boost your mood. You don't have to, but talking about your feelings may help.
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Limit Screen Time
This helps break the cycle of avoiding difficult emotions or tasks, allowing you to engage more with your surroundings, relationships, and self-care.
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Set One Small Task
Choose a simple task (like making your bed or doing the dishes) and accomplish it. It helps create a sense of achievement
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Stick to a Sleep Schedule
Go to bed and wake up at the same time each day. Consistent sleep helps regulate mood and energy levels. Try listening to a sleep story if you struggle to nod off.
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Reconnect
Depression can cause you to lose interest in what you used to love. Doing these activities anyway can provide a sense of accomplishment and reconnection with yourself.
Free Resources to Help Manage Depression
3 Good Things
A worksheet to help you recall good things, no matter how small, that happened today.
Reconnection Worksheet
Re-engage in what you love and break the cycle of avoidance with behavioural activation.
Gratitude Template
Focus on small, positive aspects of your life to help shift your mindset away from negativity.
Affirmations Worksheet
Recognize and re-frame your negative self-talk into positive affirmations.
Relaxing Sleep Playlist
A curated playlist to help you drift off into a restful sleep.
View References
This page and the available resources have been mindfully created using many reputable sources of information:
- mind.com
- nhs.uk
- nimh.nih.gov
- my.clevelandclinic.org
- thinkcbt.com
- positivepsychology.com
Emergency Support
Whatever you're going through, there are people you can talk to any time. You can:
- call Samaritans on 116 123 (UK-wide)
- text SHOUT to 85258 (UK-wide)
- call C.A.L.L. on 0800 132 737 (Wales only)
These services are for anyone who's struggling and they won't judge you.
They're free, they're anonymous, and they're always open.
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